This blog post is going to be controversial –
and not everyone is going to appreciate it.
That’s ok. I am sharing my
research, not trying to offend people, but if I do, I apologise in
advance. All I can say is sometimes the
Truth is not the answer we wanted to hear… It wasn’t for me.
Faith + Me
Let me
tell you about what I believe – I believe in God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. I
believe in heaven and hell. I believe that we will go to one or the other when
we die. I believe that Jesus died on a
cross, a cruel and painful death. He was
a sacrifice that God gave to save us from going to hell. I believe that Jesus
rose from the dead. I believe that God has power over sin and death and
sickness and that he does heal. I
believe that God does speak to Christians today through other Christians and
through his bible. I believe we can pray to God and that he does hear us and
does answer us one way or another.
Just
before the IVF cycle started I went to see a reflexologist for a few
sessions. I did this because I had seen
a lot of noise on the forums about it helping to get the all-important BFP (Big
Fat Positive) during IVF treatment, that
and acupuncture. I couldn’t wrap my head
around acupuncture which seemed like a silly way to go as I am already sticking
too many needles in myself each day, and also that seemed too way-out and
Chinese / Voo-doo for my liking. They
don’t believe in the same God I do, so this Chinese medicine thing – although
widely propagated as a miracle cure to infertility – is out for me, but
reflexology seems much tamer. So long as the reflexologist is a Christian it
should be fine – they won’t be practicing the spiritual side of things will
they? It’s just a healing massage
technique right?
Instead of
doing too much factual research I chatted to friends and family who have had it
/ done it / are in the medical field. I
didn’t get a bad vibe on it from any of them so I went ahead and booked my
first appointment. I arrived still
a bit wary and asked lots of questions.
The chart on the wall demarcated areas of the feet associated with
organs of the body and had all sorts of fire, water, earth, ying, yang stuff on
it. In the corner of the room there was
a plastic anatomically correct model of a man with lines down him, this I was
told were the meridians that the energy flowed through and that blockages in
the energy would cause an imbalance which causes feelings of un-wellness,
anxiety or emotional distress. There was a definite feel for me that this was
an alternative therapy… alternative to western medicine. While in the room I prayed against any
consequence of the using this alternative therapy and continued with the
treatment. Thinking back now that’s like
standing in front of an oncoming train and praying that God would protect you
from the consequences – sometimes the stuff I pray for is just so illogical.
The
therapist told me that she had also struggled to fall pregnant, and then
someone suggested that she try reflexology and she was pregnant in 2
months. Once she had the baby she then
learned reflexology herself and started practicing. Hah – so this does work, awesome I am in the
right place for a miracle – God will do a miracle through reflexology right?
I asked
God to give me a clear sign if this wasn’t of Him – of course I didn’t look too
hard – I wanted to continue with the treatment especially seeing as it has worked
for others I know, and I was enjoying it.
I avoided my bible a bit, in church I was hoping to be massively
convicted during worship – I wasn’t, I was hoping that someone would come up
with a prophetic word against it, they didn’t.
So I carried on seeing the reflexologist.
I attend a
fertility support group that is run by a lady who goes to Rosebank Union Church
and the group met towards the end of April.
A pastor, John N, came to pray for those who wanted prayer. This man prayed for one of the ladies in the
group who had been on the fertility road for 7 years, and she fell pregnant
naturally the very next month.
I was
really hoping for a “glory moment” with the “man of power for the hour”. I should totally know better. Christianity is not about hype or emotion.
Jesus never whipped the crowds into a frenzy or manipulated people based on
their emotions. John gave me a warning –
he said “the number one cause of infertility
is witchcraft.” Okay Whoa, hold on a
minute buddy – are you telling me I am mixed up in some funky stuff? I am a bible believing, church attending,
community serving Christian here – I am not involved in coven meetings and
magic - I was offended, and I wanted to write this guy off as a kook – but he
went on to say that this is not the type of witchcraft he was referring
to. Its much more subtle, part truth,
part poison - you don’t even know it’s happening. “Its like a spider web of small threads that
eventually covers you and cuts your intimate personal relationship with God. Feel disconnected from God? Feel like there
is no connection in worship? Feel like
the word is dead when it used to be alive?“ I could kind of tick all those
boxes. “There is a spiritual blockage and its caused by a spirit, other than
the Holy Spirit interfering”. Examining this honstly, post moretem, I could
identify with some of what he had said -
if this is the number one cause of infertility then let me tell you I
would like to be rid of whatever it is, big or small in my life, so I am
willing to overlook the offense and check my life out. John just prayed a simple prayer over me,
that all the ties of witchcraft would be cut loose and bind me no longer.
Of course
the first thing that popped into my mind while mulling over all this on the
drive home was the reflexology. Have I gotten mixed up in something contrary to
the Truth I believe? At what cost? I needed to do some real research – not just
popular opinion but some real checking and digging and heart searching.
So here is
what I found – I have quoted the website references at the end of the article
so that you can have a read for yourself.
This next section is only the facts from sources that I would say are
reputable, and any of my additional comments or thoughts have been added in in
brackets and italics. Let me just say this – I am not condemning anyone who has
been for reflexology or practices reflexology.
I am stating why I don’t think reflexology is right for me given what I
believe. Every action has consequences –
good or bad, and I think we should know the facts about the stuff which could
have consequences.
What is Reflexology
Reflexology
is a holistic therapy which aims to benefit the body, mind, emotions and
spirit. It is said to work by unblocking 'energy channels' running up from the
foot to an organ affected by malfunction or disease, allowing the free flow of
'life energy' necessary for healing and good health.
The common
denominator in most theories of reflexology is the concept of some form of
'life energy' (ch'i, prana, vital force etc) and some therapists believe that
the channels of this energy connect with the chakras or energy centres
prominent in the Hindu philosophy of yoga.
(I do not like the sound of that… )
The Tao is “The Way” and the Tao radiates cosmic (universal) vibrations which filter onto everything and everyone and which infiltrate and preserve every-thing. Tao radiates a spirit known as "chi" or "ki" (energy vibrations). They say Tao is not confined to heaven but is in everything and this 'god' and his spirit, the chi energy, permeate everything, as well as the human body.
(The only spirit I want permeating my everything is the Holy Spirit)
The chi energy moves in 12 meridians. Six meridians run down the left side of the body and six on the right, just beneath the surface of the skin. Six meridians are YIN (passive, female, dark) and six are YANG (energy, male, light). Each of the YIN meridians is coupled to YANG channel in the hand or the foot.
Sickness is caused by a disturbance or blockage in these channels. This results in an organ receiving too little YIN or YANG. Tao's preserving strength, his spirit, namely chi energy, cannot reach a particular organ as a result of the blockage. Remove this blockage and the balance between the YIN and YANG is restored.
Paintings
on the foot of the Hindu god Vishnu, possibly representing reflex points,
suggest that the technique may have been practised in ancient India. Others have
noted inscriptions on the foot of a reclining Buddha in Burma; these may
represent energy centres but appear as rows of regular squares quite unlike
today's reflexology charts
.
Reflexology + My Faith
I am not
loving what I have found. This kind of throws
out a whole lot of things that I thought were ok. From a Christian perspective, realise that
many therapies, including reflexology, have their basis in the concept of life
force, vital energy, ch'i (yin and yang), prana or one of the other terms used
for this 'energy' at the heart of eastern healing arts and therefore is
inextricably reliant upon a non-Christian belief system.
Colossians
2:8 See to it that no one makes prey of you by philosophy and empty deceit,
according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the
universe, and not according to Christ.
Whilst
some therapists might wish to disassociate themselves, it is difficult to see
what is left of the therapy once you have removed its spiritual essence – all
you have now is a therapeutic foot massage. It seems unlikely that there could be any harm
in a therapeutic foot massage except that:
- The diagnosis of blocked energy channels by means of palpation and the identification of painful reflex areas or sense of grittiness, are said to be due to the presence of crystals (probably calcium) in the reflex points. There does not, however, appear to be any scientific evidence for this. Could it, therefore, be divination rather than diagnosis?
- The concept of meridians in traditional Chinese acupuncture was formulated several thousand years ago, before anatomical dissection was practised. Again, there is no anatomical or histological evidence for these and the pattern by no means conforms to anatomical structures now revealed by dissection. So where did they come from?
- Alternative therapists widely promote the holistic approach towards healing including body, mind and spirit. Christians would agree that this certainly is the ideal but if spiritual healing is involved it is essential to ask the question, 'by which spirit?' - only the Holy Spirit being acceptable to Christians.
- In order to make these healing practices acceptable to Christians and Westerners, the Chi or Prana powers are described as magnetic rays or cosmic energy. These innocent sounding terms describe a wolf parading in sheep's clothing. The 'spirit' involved in Reflexology, although given attractive sounding names eg. "energy emanations from the earth", "magnetic rays", "energy", is a demonic spirit (cringe). Those who consult reflexologists allow this Taoistic spirit to influence their lives. The Bible opposes this in Ephesians 4:27: “Do not give the Devil a foothold”
I have to
say that the last one made me cringe but the first one clinched it for me. When
I read that I could understand how it could be that I have allowed a subtle yet
not less dangerous thread of witchcraft into my life. Demonic, Divination, Witchcraft are all
strong supernatural words. Am I not going off the deep end a little but
here? They have horrible scary
connotations. I don’t like this
stuff. I don’t want to read it / hear it
/ believe it. I want to believe that
everything is nice and useful for good.
I also want to believe that God is going to come through for me and
answer my prayer, the miracle of the positive pregnancy test at the end of the
month.
But
let’s go back to what I said right at be beginning.
I believe
in Heaven and Hell. If there are
Miracles which proclaim Gods Glory, then
there must also be forces that want to stop the miracle with evil so that God
doesn’t get the Glory. If there are angels that protect us there must also be
the opposite of angels,forces, that want to harm us. Some people, depending how crazy /charismatic
they are may call them Devils, Demons and Witchcraft. Are they maybe not just brave and bold enough
to be calling a spade a spade? Am I a sugar-coat-it Christian. Maybe.
Not today – not with this!
For me
there are too many “unknowns”. I can’t
be comfortable that Reflexolgy is based on anything other than unbiblical
beliefs. It just doesn’t stand up
against the bible the Word of God, the word I trust as the Truth.
Deuteronomy 18:10 – 12 Let no one be found among you who ...
practices divination or sorcery,
interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, 11 or casts
spells, or who is a medium or spiritist or who consults the dead.
12 Anyone who does
these things is detestable to the Lord; because of
these same detestable practices the Lord your God
will drive out those nations before you.
EEEEK!!!
There were some harsh consequences for the Israelites who practiced this stuff.
Luckily we can come to Jesus and ask him for forgiveness, but there still may
be consequence. The Israelites didnt have that option when Deut was written!
What would my consequence be if I continued knowing what I now know. I cant - I cannot risk it. What if the sins of the father are passed on
to the child (Exodus 20:5) What if my child is affected in some way and bears
the consequence of this. At what cost am
I prepared to get pregnant?
· The Bible
If you are
concerned and want prayer like I had, please contact me and I will arrange
something
I hear what you’re saying the thing that really gets me is that I have had many times when I have massaged my foot , to healed myself of illnesses.
ReplyDeleteCouldn't it be possible that God created our bodies in such a way? So that we have easy access to our own physical healing?
Being a God of love and Mercy and wanting only the best for his children, why couldn't of God incorporated these pressure points into our bodies so that we could directly massage the area of concern and have some benefit?
Can you provide me with a Bible verse which would demonstrate that God wouldn't create our body in a way that we would have easy access to our own healing?
Isn't it possible that the teachings of Taoism and Buddhism. Looked at the ways that the body functions and turned this function into a religious teaching?
How far do we take your opinion on this topic?
- Does this mean that we can't use other various kinds of body massage?
- The Neck massage for example can be linked to other kinds of religions .i.e. Daoyin Tao! Would you say that I couldn't massage someone's neck because I would be indirectly disseminating the teachings of Daoyin Tao?
- Or maybe I could massage someone's head because of the teachings of champissage?
- Or maybe we shouldn't wash each other's feet because we may awake the crown chakra?
Why couldn't a Christian massage someone if they didn't believe in i.e. Universal Cosmic Energy? When I say pressure point, am not referring to a area of energy. I am saying that I personally think that the body 'may' have area's that could be massaged to provide healing. Just because the teachings of Taoism and Buddhism have incorporated, this knowledge into their philosophy and ideology, why should not prevent me from massaging for healing , even if its a placebo?
Does this also mean that Christians can not use essential oils, because they are used by oculist's and spiritualists?
Does this mean that Christians can not use herbs for healing because , that can be used by those who practise magic. Which is forbidden by the bible! Here are some examples of herbs being used in magic. Acacia, Alfalfa, Allspice, Almond etc.
In the Bible, Jesus did not heal using reflexology, He did however wash feet. Hannah prayed for a child, and promised to dedicate the child to God, and God answered her prayers. Hannah did not go to a reflexologist. The Bible is our example. (B.asic I.nstructions B.efore L.eaving E.arth)
DeleteI suggest you pray until you have a definite answer before going.
ReplyDeleteI'm actually really glad that I came across this, I was considering doing reflexology thinking it's more of a medical foot massage, not knowing the history of it all, and as a Christian I don't think this is something I want to dabble in, no matter how much I want that baby! I'll just believe in God alone.
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